Life changing.

Who is Karlie Hustle? [Installment 4]

I guess maybe I got involved with the wrong crowd.  The truth is, I merely gravitated toward a place where I wasn’t judged for being the daughter of an absent, alcoholic father and the sister of a junkie.  I hung out with people like me; kids from broken homes accidentally left to wither away against the backdrop of a suburban sprawling landscape littered with perfect nuclear families.  

I just wanted to fit in somewhere and a slew of other rejects adopted me as their own.

I was a pothead most of high school.  I grew up in Oregon, dude.  We are genetically modified at birth to be potheads for a minimum period of two-to-five years.  Let’s just say, I served my time, during which I was simultaneously a 4.0 student and I held down two jobs.

I wasn’t happy though.  I was a tragic mess of a little girl lost.  I don’t want to incriminate the living, so I’ll keep it vague.  Beyond the ambiguity for the protection of the somewhat innocent, I truly don’t believe anyone wanted to harm me intentionally.  But they did.  This is one reason why I’m about to turn 37 and I have no children.  I’d rather not “unintentionally” fuck them up for life. As a bi-product of such a fiasco, it just doesn’t seem fair.

My first boyfriend was a Black skater/snowboarder with perfect chocolate skin and burgeoning dreadlocks.  He was quite possibly the most fascinating person I’d ever laid eyes on.  He was nearly four years older than me.  I was 16 and he was 19, about to turn 20.  

A consummate pothead and petty con artist, I was ill-equipped and destined to be one of his victims.  I mean, really.  How bad could it get?

It was bad.  Real bad.  Michael Jackson.

…to be continued

Who is Karlie Hustle? [Installment 3]

I had a boss once who would remark about challenging employees and always say something like:

"I don’t think anyone wakes up in the morning with the intention to go fuck everything up. But some people just do."

He’d say this about the guy who crashed the station vehicle for the third time or the intern who slept with one of the members of the Ying Yang Twins and woke up in the county jail afterward for public drunkenness like WTF. Happens to the best of us, I suppose. 

Anyways, I’d always think about my late brother when he recited this phrase.  I don’t think my only sibling wanted to ruin everything, but he was a bull in the China shop of life.  He fucked shit up for accidental sport.

My brother was in rehab by the age of 14.  I was seven.  The teachers at my school thought it would be a good idea to have me speak to my peers about the dangers of drug addiction.  After all, me having a flunkie drug-addict brother was almost like having a zoo animal for a family member.  They wanted someone from his natural habitat to give some insight into how creatures like him lived.  It was super wack, but I did it.

I was too young to understand what happened in family counseling.  All I got out of it was that 11-year-olds were alcoholics and my brother was doing coke in his pubescent years.

I knew he had a problem when he couldn’t just have one bowl of sugar cereal.  He’d eat the whole box in one sitting.  We were supposed to share it.  Mom said we could share it.  Why didn’t he let me have any?

It was a life of excess.  His cravings knew no limits.  His greed was never quenched. 

He was always AWOL and my mom would wake me up at 2am and we’d drive around the city looking for the house party he was rumored to be at.  We’d listen to Sally Jesse Raphael on the radio.  To a woman counseling other people about their problems.  And we’d ride until the sun came up.

…to be continued.

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Black-stained wooden lettering. Gold-mirror acrylic. Magnetic backing for versatility. #HustleBowTie

Black-stained wooden lettering. Gold-mirror acrylic. Magnetic backing for versatility. #HustleBowTie

Who is Karlie Hustle? [Installment 2]

My dad was a foreigner, but I didn’t understand that as a child.  I was 12-years-old when it dawned on me that he had an accent and spoke in another language. 

I knew my dad was from Finland and that my mom was Armenian and because of that we ate weird foods that the other kids with their Kraft singles sandwiches couldn’t grasp.  Strange foods wrapped in the leaves of cabbages and grapes. 

I started shaving at age nine.  I was a hairy, yellow girl growing up in a small, pale town.  The gals at my middle school thought my mom let me go tanning. 

I was told that my dad didn’t want me and my brother to learn how to speak Finnish.  Probably that “I’m-an-American-now-and-you-kids-will-speak-English!” attitude that some immigrants have.  Or maybe not.  Maybe he just wanted to talk his shit and have us not understand.  Turns out, I didn’t understand much of the English-speaking him either.  He was a confusing person the way he’d behave.  Nothing like my TV dads Bill Cosby and Michael Landon.

My dad used to take my brother fishing and let him drink alcohol.  I suppose that’s where it all started.  15 years of hell.

…to be continued.

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New black & gold #HustleBowTie available @! Also released a few of the original colorway.

Who is Karlie Hustle? [Installment 1]

When I discuss my life story with people, they are generally shocked.  I cannot quite determine if this reaction is offensive or flattering.  Apparently, I do an excellent job playing off my personal tragedies by overshadowing them with the accolades I accrue from various career successes.  I cannot quite determine if this is a good thing or a bad thing.

I’ve been leaving work early this week.  Wait.  Let me take that back.  What I meant to say is, I’ve been leaving work around the same time everyone else leaves.  Somewhere in the 5pm hour.  Buck the system, right?  I’ve determined I’m far more useful when I take the time to be a creative person and express myself. That’s what this tumblr post is all about.

I’ve been a writer since my grandmother gave me a thesaurus for Christmas one year.  And a Black Cabbage Patch doll (which, by the way, my mom found infinitely strange).  I was six-years-old.  My grandmother was old-country Eastern born of immigrant parents buying her granddaughter a Black Cabbage Patch doll.  Not a huge deal at first glance, I suppose.  Until the summertime visits to Los Angeles came around and she made sure to recommend I stay out of the sun lest I get too dark. Maybe the doll was her attempt at being progressive.  I do not know.  Either way, she was a decent lady and she was a writer, too.

“You and your mom.  Always in the sun getting so dark!”

My mom’s summertime pictures as a youth had her looking all types of East Indian.  She recently did her DNA test.  It came back a hybrid of the dark white people countries in Europe and the Middle East.  My towhead Scandinavian father had a hard time looking me in the face because I am my mother’s twin, and they had the clear and finite falling out that most people who marry at the age of 21 have.  Taking a glance at me though, she could have convinced a stranger that she birthed me all by herself.  Some type of immaculate conception.  This would have been believable if the blatant evidence of that man’s athletic bloodline wasn’t coursing so prominently through my veins.

My dad was a pre-Olympian long-jumper.  And an alcoholic.  And I haven’t seen him in 25 years.

…to be continued.

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The Illuminati knows what’s up. Can’t knock the drops this week.